Why Does He Do That?- Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
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Web ID: 16835632I NEVER THOUGHT IT WASNT LIFE TO LIVE LIKE THAT
I was not brought up in any way of my child hood life growing up as into my teen years as well to be loved nor to even love myself. I never knew it existed. SOMETHING deep inside my soul was searching for something out there, but I just didn't know what it was. I've been on my own since I was 13 years old, trying to find what I was hungry for deep inside me, but they this journey of mine I came within relationships.that brought me to have my 7 children now, but my relationships weren't the fairy tale love story that happened, Some of them where hitting. Yelling, name calling. I couldn't go out, I couldn't wear certain clothes, they cheated on me, I couldn't be around my friends, rape. Sexual assault, I have to give them my money. I never have a bank account they handled all that, there's more but in true honesty in the first years of these relationships I thought it was normal to live like that because growing up in a home like that and not being able to have a voice about nothing I was just use to it, After me going to the hospital for hermorrage of the brain because of D.V. i have a testimony that I truly believe that the LORD sent my Guardian angel to send me a message because if not I wouldnt be here today. After that all that someone gifted me this book "Why does he do that" When I first opened the book i read the first 3 pages and I had to out it down because I was crying and crying that night i had a horrific night mare and ot brought back a memory that i had put away very deep within my heart and soul that I woke up screaming. I did pray and spoke to my psychiatrist and dv advocate about and they gave me some tools. I ended reading the entire book. This was in years ago. I never went back to that perpetrator ever again. I read this book 3 times because I was still am trying to figure out why are the men still like that with me when after I am doing and are so free of d.v. etc and I came finally to accept that I dont need to be in a relationship to be loved. I already love myself. I love the LORD and I want to love and give all my love rather to him and no other man in this world, universe. I recommend this book to all woman who are lost. Tired, confused, unknowledgeable, want out wants to love her. Today I'm alive, by the grace of God, ii am not perfect, I have some obstacles that I am and will defeat in my life, but I know I got this. I have faith and I love the LORD and myself. Thank you to you the Author for your gifted of wisdom and knowledge and sharing it with all of us who were in need of your help as a professional who truly loved and has a passion of what you do. I wish you nothing but the best and more success in your life May the LORD bless u now til ETERNITY..
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Life saver!
I have been with my abuser husband for 4 years, and I am getting ready to leave him. My therapist recommended this book. I strongly believed that my husband was a vulnerable narcissist, after reading this book, for sure he is an ABUSER, I feel that this book is my diary, it covers all his actions, words, reactions, belief and values, I am in shock that there are many men like him out there. I do not think he will look for therapy any time soon, but that will be his choice, I now know what it the best thing to do for my sanity.
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