The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson

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#1 New York Times BestsellerOver 1 million copies soldIn this generation-defining self-help guide, a superstar blogger cuts through the crap to show us how to stop trying to be "positive" all the time so that we can truly become better, happier people.For decades, we've been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. "F**k positivity," Mark Manson says. "Let's be honest, shit is f**ked and we have to live with it." In his wildly popular Internet blog, Manson doesn't sugarcoat or equivocate. He tells it like it is-a dose of raw, refreshing, honest truth that is sorely lacking today. The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F**k is his antidote to the coddling, let's-all-feel-good mindset that has infected modern society and spoiled a generation, rewarding them with gold medals just for showing up. Manson makes the argument, backed both by academic research and well-timed poop jokes, that improving our lives hinges not on our ability to turn lemons into lemonade, but on learning to stomach lemons better. Human beings are flawed and limited-"not everybody can be extraordinary, there are winners and losers in society, and some of it is not fair or your fault." Manson advises us to get to know our limitations and accept them. Once we embrace our fears, faults, and uncertainties, once we stop running and avoiding and start confronting painful truths, we can begin to find the courage, perseverance, honesty, responsibility, curiosity, and forgiveness we seek.

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    • Adult
    • Hardcover
    • ISBN-13 - 9780062457714
    • Page count - 224
    • Personal Growth and Development
    • Product dimensions - 5.5 W x 8.3 H x 1 D
    • Mark Manson (Author)
    • Publisher: HarperCollins
    • Publication Date: 09-13-2016
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30 days ago
from Lancaster, CA

Meditative Book Done Right

I picked this one up for the Barnes & Noble weekly challenge (Week 1: Meditative), and while it’s not traditionally shelved as a meditative book, I’d argue that it absolutely fits the bill. Manson weaves in a surprising amount of Buddhist philosophy and introspective thinking, making it a perfect guide for anyone looking to reset their mindset and cut through the noise. 📝 Why It Hit Home: 🧘‍♂️ Protecting Your Peace – Despite the in-your-face title, this book is really about choosing what you care about wisely, prioritizing honesty over fake politeness, and letting go of the small stuff. 💬 Brutal Honesty – It’s a refreshing reminder that we don’t need to sugarcoat our feelings or pretend to care about things that don’t matter. It’s about finding your priorities and sticking to them, unapologetically. 🤣 Darkly Funny – Manson’s blunt, irreverent style had me laughing out loud more than once, and the lessons stick because of it. 💌 Final Take: I’d love to send this book to a few people who could really use the message, but that would be giving a f*ck, and this book just taught me not to do that.

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6 months ago
from Long Island, NY

Great informative read with lots of useful info!

Purchased this book and met the Author at Book Con 2019, finally getting around to reading it especially since this is how I've been feeling lately. Great informative read with lots of useful info!

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9 months ago
from Charlotte

Only made it to ch 1

It felt like an adult who writes on the level of a 5th grader. The cursing felt forced and unnecessary, as if he were meeting a word count. Ch 1 felt like every gym bro that doesn’t want to process feelings so they come up with every way to avoid them and continue being toxic. He literally describes how he’s a loser and a bad person. Ch 1 was like he found 1 quote that resonated with him and made an entire chapter out of it

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11 months ago
from Georgia

Disappointed

I wanted to like this book, I really did. I have seen some small video snippets from Mark Manson and thought he seemed to have some good advice. I was at a point in my life where I needed to learn how to not get so worked up about insignificant events or people, so I thought this book would be my panacea. I was very disappointed. I found the tone of the book to be very pompous and boastful. When I realized how much younger the author actually was than me, I didn't dismiss his experience-based advice immediately, but then I started to question it more and more as the book went on. It became apparent that the author's life was much different from mine. He admitted that he came from a fairly affluent background. Most of the issues he faced in his life seemed to be the direct result of poor decision making. I didn't wanna say "poor little rich kid" but. . . The beginning of the book was interesting and somewhat helpful. But about halfway through, it became bragging disguised as advice. Lots of references to his world travel, his seemingly pointless higher education endeavors, his entrepreneurial successes, the apparently huge number of intimate partners he had because he was just so irresistible, the many speaking engagements he gets invited to, the flocks of adoring and often obsessed fans, and the large amount of money he makes peddling his self-help stuff. I didn't really learn anything from this book except about the author's life, living a frat boy type lifestyle that I can't relate to in any way. I got through 90% of the book before I just couldn't listen anymore and had to abandon it. I wish I would have sooner.

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1 year ago

Beyond my expectations

As a Guidance Counselor for disadvantaged youth in a former life, I was very much impressed by Mark's common sense approach to navigating the human condition. Probably not since reading William Glasser's "Reality Therapy" have I come across such a well written, relatable and concise treatise on the subject of living your best life. Sans any pretense of expertise as bestowed by academia, Mark has instinctively intuited a wisdom worth emulating. Great read.

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2 years ago
from NM

Phenomenal book

The approach the author takes is unique and I found it extremely beneficial to adopt the way of thinking he describes through out the book. The subtle are of not giving a f*ck was a great read and I would recommend it to anyone who is stresses or thinks too much.

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2 years ago
from New York

Great Read!

For anyone looking for a nice paced read, this is definitely a good read, any ages from 15+ should definitely read this, this book teaches you how to not get yourself distracted over stupid things. if you wanna get taught how to not care about other peoples thoughts or other things i would suggest reading.

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2 years ago
from New York

GREAT READ

This is a self-help guide to reducing your stress levels by choosing to care only about those things that are important to you. It explains that you don't need to care about all the little things in life. It helped me realize that the little things I stress out about in life won't matter in a few years from now, even a year from now.

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